“As a result of working with Ellen, I have gotten married, have a beautiful child and feel so much more joy every day. She made me feel more empowered than I ever have because she taught me how to solve problems in a quick and effective manner using the model she taught me.” Sam from Naples, FL
“I was 44, had never been married or even in a serious relationship when I first started working with Ellen in January 0f 2013. I got married exactly one year later. I would never have met Bob if it weren’t for Ellen. What I liked about working with Ellen is that she gave me clear instruction on what to do to get into the right state of mind to get what I want in life. She never judged, gave her honest opinion, followed up on progress and is very wise person.” Syuzanna from Cleveland, OH
“Before taking Ellen’s class, I was so shut down to the possibility of a relationship. I didn’t think I was worthy, capable or mature enough to handle my emotions after my last relationship ended badly 15 years ago. After 6 years of therapy and 1.5 years with a coach, I finally found the answers I was seeking in Ellen’s course. I realized that it was all about me and my fears and learning how to trust myself. I had HUGE breakthroughs in learning how to love and trust myself in the course. Just days after week 4, when I wrote my Commitment Letter to myself, I began the most wonderful connection with a man that I could not even have imagined a few months ago! I am so grateful to the energies and forces in the universe that caused my path to collide with Ellen’s!” Darci from Wyoming
“In the area of relationships, Ellen helped me completely turnaround my life’s dialogue. Prior to meeting with Ellen, I really thought of myself as being the “dumped” party. I couldn’t believe how much that had impacted my life! I was totally telling myself a story. And guess what? That story was untrue! Ellen taught me how to see it completely differently and as I result I see myself completely differently.” Claudio from Florida
Why is this program different?
First of all, Finding the Love of My Life is not about how to ‘get a man’. It is about learning who you are in relationship to love. And who you are is based on what you believe. And the crazy thing is, we aren’t always completely aware of what we believe. We have unconscious beliefs about love, about ourselves and about “men” (or whoever you are seeking as a partner).
Finding the Love of My Life will teach you how to identify your Love Stories. These are the beliefs about yourself, love and “them”. Here are some examples from current and past clients:
- I always end up being left
- I am going to be alone the rest of my life
- I am too old to find love
- Men are emotionally unavailable
- The good ones are all taken
- Men want women who will take care of them
- I am not wanted
Once you have learned how to identify your Love Story, I will teach you the 4-step process to transformation. The result will be a NEW Love Story. Only this one will be based on the deeper truth of who you really are.
You will learn to see yourself in a new way. As a result you will show up in life in a new way.
Your new Love Story will create a magnetic field for love to come to you! But these aren’t just affirmations you repeat in the mirror. My process for transforming your Love Stories is a powerful “body-felt” experience. You will EXPERIENCE IT. You will FEEL IT. You will believe it.
The second element of my program that makes it unique is that after we clear out all of the “old stuff” to create the space for love, we learn how to live life as a magnet for love. I teach you how to do this by connecting to what is already inside of you and showing up everyday in a new way. You will learn to approach ALL of your interactions and relationships from this place of GIVING love. You will no longer be going through your life looking to GET. You will be the generator of love so there is no more effort to GET. As you already know, you create everything in your life by what you give; by who you are BEING. I will teach you how to BE from this new, stronger center of yourself that has shifted with your new Love Story.
Here’s what we will cover each week:
Week One: The Fast Track Love Formula
You will learn how to quickly shift from victim to empowerment in seeing past relationships. Next, you will create the Invitation to Love through a powerful process of giving yourself permission to connect with your deepest yearning. And third, you will create an anchor for Love using a process called Creationization.
Week Two: Clearing Away Your Barriers to Love
To open up space for new love, you will gain clarity on how to “complete the past”. You will begin to experience the freedom from bitterness or anger that may have kept you stuck. You will begin the “metamorphosis” of the caterpillar by giving up the life you had for the life you are creating.
Week Three: Rewriting My Love Story
You will learn the powerful 4 step process for identifying and shifting the core beliefs that have kept you repeating the same patterns. Using proven guided imagery techniques that access the right hemisphere of the brain and bypass your left-brain thinking, judging and analyzing, you will create new Love Stories. You will learn to operate from your “adult brain” and not follow the emotional reactivity of your “child brain”.
Week Four: Rewiring Your Neural Pathways
As you transition to living your life from a stronger place of your new Love Story, you will make a commitment to yourself. You will learn how to change old, well-worn thought patterns in your brain. You will be writing a Commitment Letter and gain clarity on how you will be giving yourself the things you didn’t get previously. You will experience tremendous personal power as you let go of holding others responsible for your past and move forward knowing how to co-create the life you desire.
Week Five: Living from the Future You
You will set a clear intention for love by using the end result you intend to create and working backwards. Using the principles of the Law of Attraction, you will learn to focus on your Vision For Love to interpret the present and give meaning to things instead of seeing the present through the old lenses of the past. You will learn how to stand in your value and attract a new level of partnership.
Week Six: Being the Love of My Life
The final module will help you integrate and anchor in your new beliefs and ways of being. You will open the flow of life through you and increase your emotional connection to draw in others, to connect with life and to connect to love everywhere you go, assuring that your soulmate will recognize you!
Each week you will receive the prerecorded modules to watch at your convenience (hopefully a few times!). You will also receive the worksheets and homework assignments to deepen and enrich your transformation. Remember, that transformation is achieved through experience, not just talking or listening. That is why the course is limited to a small group so that there is plenty of time for each person to receive the coaching they need and to go through experiential exercises each week. That is also why this program works.
Even if you have spent years in therapy talking about relationship patterns and where you get stuck, Finding the Love of My Life will work quickly because it is based on transformation of your Love Story from a deeper level.
Every week, we will have a one-hour live group coaching and Q & A call on Zoom. These will be recorded incase you have to miss any. You will be amazed at how much you can learn from watching others being coached!